Archive for July, 2010

“If you can’t feed a hundred people, then feed just one” — Mother Teresa of Calcutta

Posted on July 30th, 2010 by by Molly Ford

How to be Smarter: You gotta have rules for your own life. They don’t have to make sense to other people, but you need to have boundaries that you have created for yourself and will not bend on. There is no need to have a million personal dealbreakers, but there is also no need to [...]

“My husband gave me a necklace. It’s fake. I requested fake. Maybe I’m paranoid, but in this day and age, I don’t want something around my neck that’s worth more than my head” — Rita Rudner

Posted on July 27th, 2010 by by Molly Ford

How to be Smarter: A list of what one magazine is calling The New Book Classics—pretty interesting to see what you have read (and which ones you still need to pick up). How to be Prettier: A general rule of thumb is to buy high-end basics (i.e. an Elizabeth and James LBD) and more affordable trend-driven [...]

“I had a dream last night, I was eating a ten pound marshmallow. I woke up this morning and the pillow was gone” — Tommy Cooper

Posted on July 26th, 2010 by by Molly Ford

How to be Smarter: One of the scariest things in a long distance relationship is uncertainty about staying connected. Before embarking on a distance separation, mitigate the fear of the unknown future with a communication plan. It doesn’t need to be written down, but it needs to be talked about. If you are actually serious [...]

“A lot of my humor does come from anger. It’s like, ‘you’re not gonna pull one over on me’ – which is pretty much my motto anyways” — Courteney Cox

Posted on July 22nd, 2010 by by Molly Ford

How to be Smarter: I love googling “Six Word Memoir” and seeing what examples come up; this is one of my favorite articles that explains the phenomenon. How to be Prettier: In general, the least healthy food is kept in the middle aisles of the grocery store. The middle is usually where the Gushers and the [...]

“If toast always lands butter-side down, and cats always land on their feet, what happens if you strap toast on the back of a cat and drop it?” — Stephen Wright

Posted on July 21st, 2010 by by Molly Ford

How to be Smarter: Don’t date people that make a huge mess at the sugar/milk station at Starbucks and don’t clean it up themselves. People that make huge messes and expect someone else to clean it up, both at sugar/milk stations and in life, are to be avoided. How to be Prettier: Polka dots + [...]

“As long as there’s pasta and Chinese food in the world, I’m okay” — Michael Chang

Posted on July 20th, 2010 by by Molly Ford

How to be Smarter: I just finished a memoir called This Is Not The Story You Think It Is: A Season of Unlikely Happiness and really enjoyed it. If you don’t have time to read the whole book, it is based off of the writer’s Modern Love column from last year.     How to be Prettier: [...]

“I have the reputation of being easygoing. But inside, I’m like nails” — Calvin Klein

Posted on July 19th, 2010 by by Molly Ford

How to be Smarter: I really believe that one of the best compliments you can receive is “you’re fun.” Being called fun means that you are easygoing, reasonably humorous, cool to be around, social, chatty, and make others feel welcome and included. It is an all-in-one compliment. Trying to work to earn this compliment, and being [...]

“What a strange power there is in clothing” — Isaac Bashevis Singer

Posted on July 16th, 2010 by by Molly Ford

Please check out my interview earlier this week with AffordableScarves.com!

“She had the loaded handbag of someone who camps out and seldom goes home, or who imagines life must be full of emergencies” — Mavis Gallant

Posted on July 15th, 2010 by by Molly Ford

How to be Smarter: You gotta stay relevant. Stay relevant at work, asking to help out on new projects. Stay relevant in the world, peruse Google News each morning. Stay relevant with your friends, inviting friends you are on the verge of losing touch with out to dinner. Stay relevant with your family, remembering to [...]

“A hero is no braver than an ordinary man, but he is brave five minutes longer” — Ralph Waldo Emerson

Posted on July 13th, 2010 by by Molly Ford

How to be Smarter: When packing to go on a trip, pairs of heels tend to be the item that is hardest to squish down and condense in your suitcase. Try to limit bringing only one to two pairs of heels—maybe a nude pair and something a little more flashy for night. Anything else is [...]

“The only way to find true happiness is to risk being completely cut open” — Chuck Palahniuk

Posted on July 12th, 2010 by by Molly Ford

How to be Smarter: It’s okay to ask for help from people you love when you need it. But if you trust them enough to ask for their expertise, in return you cannot micromanage their approach. How to be Prettier: Another good alternative to  Forever 21, GoJane also provides trendy clothes that are affordable. In particular, I like this [...]

“I hoped that the trip would be the best of all journeys: a journey into ourselves” — Shirley MacLaine

Posted on July 9th, 2010 by by Molly Ford

Please check out my guest post on Journey-Work today!

“I have great faith in fools – my friends call it self-confidence” — Edgar Allan Poe

Posted on July 8th, 2010 by by Molly Ford

How to be Smarter: If you have a free spot in your schedule, or as you are picking electives for the fall, I really recommend you take an anthropology or sociology class in a topic that interests you. Learning how to observe the world around you from both an observational and academic perspective is one of [...]

“If you saw a heat wave, would you wave back?” — Stephen Wright

Posted on July 7th, 2010 by by Molly Ford

How to be Smarter: Two favorite titles of mine for beach reading: Dog Handling by Clare Naylor, and How to Get Divorced by 30 by Sascha Rothchild. How to be Prettier: The best pump-up song to listen to while you are home for the summer and getting ready to meet up with old classmates is [...]

“When you go to take someone’s picture, the first thing they say is, ‘what you want me to do?’ Everyone is very awkward” — Annie Leibovitz

Posted on July 6th, 2010 by by Molly Ford

How to be Smarter: This is a simple site, and if you bookmark and visit it each day, your vocabulary will have to improve. How to be Prettier: It is definitely not accurate, but it is definitely fun to do. And it serves as a reminder to wear sunscreen! How to be (less) Awkward: If [...]

“Everything that is really great and inspiring is created by the individual who can labor in freedom” — Albert Einstein

Posted on July 5th, 2010 by by Molly Ford

How to be Smarter: Pretty informative article about the American flag in time for the holiday. How to be Prettier: If you are going to get your hair done for a special occasion, be sure to wear a loose fitting top (a zip-up hoodie is ideal), so you can change clothes later without messing up [...]

Happy 19 Months.

Posted on July 1st, 2010 by by Molly Ford

Hey Friends, It’s been exactly 19 months today that I started Smart Pretty and Awkward. I did the rough math on it and figure that it’s been about 1,200 tips since then. Today I’d like some feedback on those tips. What haven’t I covered? What would you like to see more of? Less of? Different [...]